One-night stands are a great way to explore your sexuality and enjoy yourself while single. While it’s fun to get caught up in passion and spontaneity, it’s always good to be prepared to ensure you have a good time and stay safe. Here are a few tips to make sure you’re ready for the moment when it strikes.

Practice Good Hygiene

A sure-fire way to kill the mood during a hook-up is to be smelly and ungroomed. Before going out, make sure you look and feel good. A shower and shave (if that’s your preference) can make a big difference, both for the person you’re hooking up with and for you. Do what you need to do to feel sexy, desirable, and ready for anything. If you’re hooking up after a sweaty night at a club there’s no shame in taking a quick shower beforehand.

Keep Supplies On Hand

Make sure you’re stocked up on condoms, lube, wipes, and anything else you might need to have fun and practice safe sex. It’s easy to forget these things in the heat of the moment, so having them on hand will come in clutch at a moment’s notice. Having supplies also alleviates awkward conversations and makes sure your night goes forward without a hitch.

Stay Safe

Always tell a friend where you’re going and who you’re going with. Hooking up with a stranger always poses a risk, so be extra cautious. Stay aware of your surroundings, trust your gut, and make a plan with a friend if things start to go wrong.

Have a Back-Up Plan

Even the best intentions can go astray. Before you have a one-night stand it’s good to research your options for STDs, unplanned pregnancies, and contraception mishaps. Being aware of emergency contraception options can remove some of the anxiety that comes from having sex, especially outside of a committed relationship. You’ll feel more confident when you are informed and prepared for whatever might happen.

Don’t Forget to Tidy

If you think there’s a chance of bringing someone back to your home, don’t forget to tidy up before leaving for the night. Make your bed, pick up the laundry lying on your floor, and get rid of the dirty dishes that might be lying around. Your home doesn’t need to be spotless, but you don’t want a dirty apartment to ruin your night.

Know Your Exit Strategy

Whether you plan on leaving immediately after or want to spend the night, have an exit strategy in mind. Communicating with your hook-up about your intentions will help avoid awkwardness and hurt feelings. There’s no shame in making up a doctor’s appointment or last-minute birthday party, but have that plan in place ahead of time so you can execute your plan effectively.

Remember your safety, happiness, and enjoyment are the most important aspects of any sexual encounter. Being prepared will empower you to make choices that will lead you to better sex and more fulfilling one-night stands. Trust your instincts, stay safe, and have fun.

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